Question: plot3d size issues

I'm not sure if this is fixed in newer Maples or if there's a work around. 

Whenever I size a 3d plot, that I'm trying to stretch out the width while keeping the height, never seems to work.  For example using the size=[3000,800] produces a plot area that's bigger but NOT actually a plot stretched in the x axis.  Going to size=[3000,3000] of course then makes the plot and the area bigger and so scales both x and y bigger.  However I don't want the y axis scaled up - I'm trying to scale the plot up - not the area.  And what happened to the window zoom, icon - we've lost zoom control to just magnify + and magnify - (at least in 2022) this seems like a regression. 

Is this plot size a bug or just a plot command that fails to function like it should?